At the time, this was a thoughtful gift from a relative, although I never wore it. I am not big on fine jewelry and to me there is something a bit stressful about wearing something pricey on my clumsy self! Earrings and rings seem to do alright, but not dangly things with lots of slack! More recently though, my relationship with that relative has turned quite ugly. It is saddening that this happens, but I value my sanity and happiness. I also know that this person uses guilt and gifts as a bargaining tool. I got tired of hearing how I was supposed to be doing work to help her out because she had bought me all these things (none of which I had asked for). Not having this negative reminder around will clear up some mental space for happier things. I hope this necklace brings someone else some joy and happiness though!
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Hello! - I have followed you over from 365less things blog and I enjoy your blog too! Dealing with gifts is so complex - esp from relatives and esp if they are a little more expensive. I do believe people need to keep their environment positive. If seeing that necklace brings up negative feelings then I say sell it (it would be a little tricky to return to your aunt). You don't have an obligation to hang onto those gifts that make you feel bad. Declutter the gift and the vibes!
ReplyDeleteYes a tricky situation and a good thing to be rid of. I think it is time for me to go through my jewelry box again. Taking into account how infrequently I open it there must be plenty of things in there I don't use or want.
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